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Fat is Only a Feeling

In: Busy Mom Fitness Solutions

14 Sep 2009

Have you ever thought, “I feel fat”? I am sure as a woman you have at least 100x/week. But fat is only a feeling. Are you really fat? Probably not, you may just be having guilt feeling about eating some chips or doggin’ it through your last workout. It comes down to your mindset, how do you see yourself. People are harder on themselves because we are naturally self-absorbed. Believe me others are not criticizing you for skipping yesterdays workout- they don’t even know and they are too busy worrying about themselves. Ok, so we have that cleared up, no one else is critiquing you. But what about you, why are you hard on yourself? Ask yourself these questions and answer them truthfully, everyone’s answer is going to be different and I would love to hear them.   If you are overweight, you have come to the right site for help and support too.
Myself, I will answer this question for you right now. I feel fat when I eat a poor breakfast like junky cereal, this sets me up for the day. I also feel fat according to my monthly cycle, that I feel I cannot control how my hormones affect my mind. I can honestly (and my clients will attest to this) say I don’t think I feel the same degree of social pressures as other women I know regarding my body image. I am female and I do have them, but I know that part of my attraction of being a successful personal trainer is because of my positive self image. So where did this come from, we all read the same magazines and watch the same tv. 

I don’t have a six pack, but I am strong and happy with my body.  I will post videos when I am feeling fat and bloated, like the kettle bell video, because I know all people have these days, that’s life.   I could diet for photo shoots if I wanted to, but I won’t that’s not real life.  I was going to, but decided personally against it.  I train for overall health.

I can attribute my positive self image to being an athlete. Yes that is right, I always trained for performance not for looking good but for actually being good at something. I played soccer, basketball and volleyball all at a highly competitive level. My sport of choice that I continued playing on the varsity team was volleyball, and I can attest it was my worst sport as well. I was good enough to play varsity, but it was my biggest athletic challenge and I took it on. If I can play at this level in my worst sport I can do anything.   I had to get better and that is when I started training, just to be competitive with the other athletes.  This is how I got involved in working out, I loved it.  I never started to lose fat, I just wanted to jump higher and be faster.  The thing is it worked for both, I became a better athlete, I had a leaner body and my self image sky rocketed. 

What Every Mom Can Learn From A Man-you may not  thought this possible.

I had an interesting conversation with one of my male clients who is an ex professional athlete.  Dealing with men, they do not hold back, he out right said I am fat, I need to lose 25 lb.  He has a young family and is extremely busy.  He is honest with himself about his health and how he feels.  He told me point blank ” I am fat, I am embarrassed of my fitness level and I want to feel like and athlete again“.  That was it, a light bulb went on for me “FEEL LIKE AN ATHLETE” and your body will follow.   I am expecting tremendous results from this man because he is honest with himself and does not hide his feelings about his body image from me. 

Be honest with yourself.  Remember fat is only a feeling, self body image is what is important.   Training like an athlete will get you there.  But I’m a mom, not an athlete and never have been.  That does not matter, you are training for performance, yes how you pick up, hold and carry you children, this is your sport.  This is my sport now, and I need my training to perform as a mom at a top level and be energized and pain free managing my kids.  Train for you health, without your health you have a lot to lose- increase your quality of life with your family. 

Make this a priority, THINK LIKE AN ATHLETE and MOTHERHOOD is your SPORT.  Positive body image will follow and you soon the body you desire and deserve will follow.  I know all of this is easier said than done and keep visiting this week as we talk about reasons for exercising and changing your mindset.
Dickie Lake 235

4 Responses to Fat is Only a Feeling


Cascia @ Healthy Moms

September 15th, 2009 at 11:59 am

Great points! Attitude does make a difference. I recently returned to the gym and have noticed that when I think that I am fit my workout is much more rewarding than if I come in with the attitude that I am fat and ugly.

I still need a photo and bio for you for our site. Have a wonderful day!


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September 16th, 2009 at 7:14 pm

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